Even a listener needs a listener

Even a listener needs a listener..... a listener is a person which gives its full attention to a person who cannot hold it together or has so much going on their mind that only talking about will calm them down. Truly speaking being the listener is hard because you don't just get to listen to a person but you go through it with them and that helps you to understand the situation better. the listener dont just listen to the person he or she also helps to give a perspective which is better to cope with the situation. i have been the listener and it has its own satisfaction. being able to listen to someone about what they are going through is a great thing and knowing that the person feels comfortable to talk about the most terrible situation in their life. being a listener gives great responsibility to a person because the other person pours their heart in front of them and problems, so they have to be prepared to give them a perspective which will give them more hope and a reason they can try again in which ever field they failed once.

but the real question here is does the listener has its own listener to share her or his problem because according to experience every listener has their own problems too but very less people to share that with. this quote indicates that not all listener is there for everyone but he or she keeps his emotion and feelings to himself. he or she bottles up his feelings because he or she thinks that expressing their feeling will make them vulnerable, this feeling give them second thoughts about the things they are thinking or feeling. listeners also go through a lot but choose to keep it quite and let it be with themselves. the thing which everyone should understand is that the person who listens to sometimes want to be heard too. they go through a lot too but choose to keep it to themselves. listening is considered to be therapeutic and it helps the other person to clear their minds and heal. this process of healing is both sides but we often forget it and let ourselves carry so much and listen so much that we forget that even we need our time to heal and accept so much going on with ourselves. when the listener takes the time to heal it often comes in the form of isolation, they leave everything and close their selves so that they can clear their mind from the bottled up feelings. these feelings actually carry them down and decrease their capacity from listening. so the next time your own listener leaves for a while let them take their time because the only thing a mind needs is time to process about all the things they have been carrying around.